THE PROBLEM

This is probably where you are right now.

You noticed something. Maybe your mom got lost driving home. Maybe she asked the same question four times in one phone call. Maybe your sibling said she's fine and you thought: she is not fine, and I'm the only one who sees it.

Now you're the one making calls you never agreed to make. Looking things up at midnight. Wondering if you're overreacting or waiting too long. Carrying it alone because no one else is stepping up, and there is no job title for what you're doing.

You don't need a pep talk. You don't need someone to tell you to take care of yourself. You need to know: what do I actually do next?



THE FRAMEWORK

Five questions. One decision at a time.

It walks you through:


This is not disease education. It's not a list of symptoms or stages. It's a structure for making the decisions that are already in front of you, one at a time, starting with the one that matters most right now.


THE BELIEF SYSTEM

Three things I've learned across several hundred families:

  1. There are no perfect decisions in dementia care, only thoughtful ones. A thoughtful decision made with the best information you have today is enough.

  2. The daughter matters as much as the parent. A care plan that burns out the daughter isn't a good care plan.

  3. Guilt is not proof you made the wrong decision. Sometimes guilt is the cost of making a loving, necessary one.





WHAT'S INSIDE

What you get.

The Dementia Decision Roadmap — the complete five-question framework, written in plain language, designed to work on whatever decision you're facing right now. Not theory. Not a textbook. A structure you can use tonight.

The Companion Toolkit — six structured worksheets: brain dump, Now/Soon/Later sort, decision identifier, options research, facts vs. fears separator, and conversation planners. Each one includes a filled-in example so you're never staring at a blank page.

Start with the decision that's keeping you up tonight.


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WHO IS THIS FOR

This is for you if:


  1. You're the daughter everyone calls when something goes wrong with your parent

  2. You've been looking up how do you know when it's time or what to do when your parent refuses help

  3. Your sibling told you you're overreacting, but you know you're not

  4. You've never done this before and there is no manual for the role you're living

  5. You don't need more information — you need a way to decide

This is not for you if:


  1. You're looking for medical advice or a diagnosis (I'm a social worker, not a physician)

  2. You want someone to tell you what to do (this gives you a structure to decide for yourself)


ABOUT KYLIE

Who wrote this.

I'm Kylie Goldman. I'm a clinical social worker with more than 12 years in dementia care. I've sat across the table from several hundred daughters in the exact position you're in now.


I watched the women in my own family live this too. I know what it looks like when one daughter carries everything and nobody else sees it.


I built this framework because I kept seeing the same pattern: smart, capable women paralyzed by a situation that has no playbook. The Dementia Decision Roadmap is the playbook. Five questions, one decision, one step. 

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The Dementia Decision Roadmap

$10. Instant access. Includes the Companion Toolkit.

One decision at a time. Start with the one that's keeping you up tonight.


QUESTIONS

Before You Get Started

  • How is this delivered?

    • You'll get instant access to the digital roadmap right after checkout—no waiting, no shipping.

  • What if my situation is more complicated than the roadmap covers?

    • The framework is built to return to—when your circumstances change, you come back and start again with Question One.

  • What if it's not right for me?

    • You're covered by the 30-day money-back guarantee—no questions asked.

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This isn't a roadmap for predicting dementia. It's a roadmap for your next decision.



© 2024 The Dementia Decision Roadmap. Created by Kylie Goldman, MSW. Clarity and peace of mind for today’s decisions.